If you're a "nut case" for remembering all those dates, then I'm right there with you. I've always been that way. Unfortunately, I've been blessed (cursed!) with an excellent memory. I know way too many details about my H's infidelity (s) and, therefore, have may dates to contend with. I'm sure many will be non-issues eventually, but I think October 1st will burn in my memory forever.