Mattie, please read my thread. I'm goin gthrough a really difficult time with my H. right now and could use some of your insight. Were there times after the bomb nad you were working things out that he was distant and you did not feel loved by him. Ever since I found out about the contact and we had a fight adn our S heard he has not beent he same to me. He has stopped doing all the little things he was doing. I feel so alone and scared. This is so hard Mattie, I'm not sure how to deal with it. Rachael
