I have been following your post and I have very happy for you. I would plan a wonderful evening and make a happy memory. Why would you want to bring it up? They know what they are/have done and most of them are so ashamed that they would just like to forget. We can remember like it was an hour ago. That is something we must deal with in our own way, but the one ting to remember and to celebrate is you are going forwrd with each other and you do love each other so to remember a horrible event such as the "bomb" day would be a horrible event in itself. Think of the positives that came out of the "bomb". Fly to a place for the evening and have dinner, go to a park and have a picnic, rent a limo and have sex in it all over town. Something active, but together. I will continue to pray for you relationship. Also, do soemthing unexpected to keep him guessing.