Quoting rmccord: Does anyone have a suggestion on how I could get the proof I need but not giving hima reason to walk out the door either? I need some ideas here. I know I'd be so angry if her # was on the cell bills that I'd be likely to say anything to him. Suggestions? Rachael
Well it sounds like your between a rock and a hard place..if you get the proof w/o asking him what will you do with the proof..kick him out ?..I don't think so. If you ask him for the proof and he gives it and you don't like it..same thing?
So IF you go looking for the proof..you have got to figure out what to do with it.
Last night I checked my Hs cell phone log..and there it is a "received " call form OW's work #.
Right now he is with the dog and visiting some family property..is she with him?..I sorta accused him of it last night..he denied..I've spoken to him twice so I doubt she is there.It's awful, just awful.He admits to talking to her..by phone..I've made a pretense of blowing it off..