I would like to se the cell phone bills but if her # is on there I'd be forced to give him an ultimatum-I don't want hiom to leave again-I want him back 100%. Does anyone have a suggestion on how I could get the proof I need but not giving hima reason to walk out the door either? I need some ideas here. I know I'd be so angry if her # was on the cell bills that I'd be likely to say anything to him. Suggestions? Rachael