I went through the same thing this spring...he was obsessing about OW while pretending to "try" to repair the M.
The question is not how much damage has already been done...the question is what will motivate them to change? Will we have to distance every single time in order for them to pursue, or try to make it up?
Or can we change that dynamic? That's a tall order, and I'm just beginning to look for the answer, so I hope someone has some answers for you!!
