It's ok Mattie-we're intitled to these days-it's in the rules somewhere. I have alot of them. We'd be idiots not to ask ourselves why we put up with what they've done to us. Some days I can come up with no good reasons, most days it's becasue I've been with this man for 31 yrs total, have 3 children with him and aside from doing this terrible thing I beleive him to be a man of integrity. That last one I question on really bad days. Rachael
