MATTIE! Glad to hear you had a great week end and it was good to hear you didn't feel the need to go on a OW hunt!! You are right when you said she isn't worth your time or energy!! If you feel you got closure when you confronted her then you don't need to give her another thought! It's good that you and your H were able to enjoy each other and enjoy your time together (and make some happy memories)!! That's important!! I am sure it helped your H knowing that you could have cared less about the w*%#$ living in that area. Your feeling of confidence and your attitude showed him even more what a truly teriffic lady and loving wife you are!!!! The first trip we made to the area where my H's XOW lived made me a little nervous. I wanted to confront her but I didn't want to at the same time! Then the next trip was easier and I had more confidence. By the 3rd trip I knew that I could handle anything!! I knew that if we saw her it wouldn't matter. I could face her and I could show her that she posed no threat to me or my M!! I am actually looking forward to going back again!! However,in 2 weeks we are going to Florida so she'll have to wait until another time !! In fact we are planning on going back to that area again in February to celebrate out 34th anniversary (we have found the perfect little romantic restaurant to celebrate in). I know by then I will be even mnore confident and will not care in the least if she is around or not.It's sort of weird but I feel that by my H and I going to the area where the XOW lives and we make new and happy memories together,it helps erase the horrible memories I have of her there with my H! Maybe I'm just weird !! TIME IS A HEALING THING!!!! Sounds like things are going great and moving forward for you and your H!! I am proud of you and I am so very very happy that things are getting better and better!!
Your friend,Pat