When I offer a hus to my W she accepts and basically follows my lead. If I give a friendly pat on the back hug she returns the same. If I give her an embracing hug she gets confused and starts with a friendly hung and then ends up squezing at least as tight if not tighter than I am. This is where the DBing gets confuseing. I am getting a good respoce from the hugs but I do not want to be to pushy either.
Like last night I just open up my arms and she came walking right in. Good sign right?
I do not offer hugs all of the time I try to keep it spuratic (spelling?) but everytime I offer I she follows my lead.
How should I hamdle this one? Ben
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
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