Yes, I agree...that is very noble of you...but do you ever wonder? I'm not sure that I will have a bunch of kids, you know, being 22 3/4, but I have traveled a lot. Scuba dived in Cancun, Cozomel, Puerto Rico, Hawaii, never did this being married...flew a glider plane and landed it all by myself (not the toy), all different things that I know would have never happened if I was still married.
But, sometimes, I wonder, how it would have been being a mother...then I think of Kona or Oahu, then I remember.