Yes, he was controlling...but there were no signs until after we were married. It seems that he needed to run the R.
One night, he got dressed and I said where are you going? He said that he was going out with his friends, so I was not too happy. I said, let's go do something. Then, he tells me there was a cobweb in the corner by the ceiling and I should stay home and clean. Off he went... Nice huh?
I cannot stand for anyone to clip my wings. It was then, I think, I started looking and listening to my boss's kind, non-judgemental words.
But, his OW id definitely a plain-jane...so he can have her...