Unsure If I Belong Here

[kaydeekay]

Phoenix_spark:

Thanks for the advice. At this point I'm letting H have his space. It seems everyday we are together he tends to withdraw more and more. Last night H was real distant. We had dinner and afterwards he leaves the table to watch T.V. I run to the store, come back, and go to the bedroom. I tried to initiate conversations and would get real short answers/comments. While I was in the bedroom my friend called my cell. She too is having problems with her H. While I was talking to her H comes in the bedroom to get a shirt. I could see H looking at me so I turned to him and he asked who I was talking to, so I told him. H leaves the room but leaves the door cracked.

At bed time I went to the kitchen for a drink. I noticed H laying on the couch with T.V. on and all the lights out. I assumed he was going to sleep on the couch so I told him goodnight. H just mumbled goodnight. I went to bed and he stayed on the couch all night.

H goes to work 2 hours after I do. H was asleep when me and my 2 girls left for the morning. I told him good-bye and have a good day. He mumbled something.

Today I thought I would try something different. I tend not to call H, I wait for him to call. I text him a message: Just wanted 2 say hi. I know U R pretty busy @ work. Have a super-duper day and I love you!

Should I continue to let him have his space or kinda hang around him but not on him?