I agree that he needs to find his place in the home. And yes he did come home to me. We have been going back and forth so many times that I've lost count. The way he is acting now is the same in times past when he has come back AND left again.
I feel that if I let him have his space, then I'm ignoring him or not paying attention to him. OR I will try to get close to him and talk to him (no R talks) he seems to have no interest. We are ML almost daily, so there's no problem there. I'm hoping this will draw us closer together.
When we were apart H would call daily, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. And now, I may get 1 call from him. I sometimes feel as though I was the one that the A and being punished. I don't throw the A in his face (which I think he's anticipating) and I don't ask questions about the time we were separated.
H says he has an appointment with a C tomorrow, so we'll see how that goes.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
