Keydeekay, long time no see but I think I remember your name. My sitch is here to in "Need help with reconciliation." Check it out.
I too face similar circumstances. I find when I do nice things for W I get accused of trying too hard. I reminded her the other day that I really am doing nothing different regarding being nice that I did two years ago and it gave her pause to think.
In one of the many books I've read was something to the effect of "you can be right or you can be married." Seems to apply here. Just keep doing the best you can. BTW, if it all works out, and I truly hope it does, don't get off the boards too fast. I did and I now wish I hadn't.
