Unsure If I Belong Here

[sean669]

You've been here for a while. Looks like he might be seeing your changes. Thats good news. The feeling thing....

Love is a choice. sometimes the feeling is there, sometimes not so much. Dr. Chapman stats it well in the 5 languages of love. If you do loving things, and he does loving things, those feelings will be there.... they take a while.

So what are you waiting for? Are you waiting for
your spouse to make the first move? Are you
waiting to feel love?

Most people think that the FEELING of love comes
BEFORE we express love - and in the beginning of a
relationship, that's what happens. You fall in
love and THEN you do acts of love. Your feelings
inspire your actions.

But mature love asks more of you. To create a
strong LASTING marriage, you first CHOOSE LOVING
ACTIONS. Your feelings will follow.

After all, you don't jog two miles or skip
dessert because you feel healthy. You feel
healthy because you jogged two miles and skipped
dessert. So too, when it comes to your marriage,
YOUR ACTIONS CREATE YOUR FEELINGS!

I got this quote in an emial...