John-yousay youknow the signs to look for so history won't repeat itself. What would those signs look like John? My H is where your wife was I think. He broke it off with the OW after I found out about them . He had had a 2.5 yr affair with her! Now he is nice somedays. angry others. At home he is quiet most the time, falls asleep on the couch. In bed I do most of the snuggling-he will be intimant but its almst always me that initiated it right now, and he does not get turned on as easily as before. What do I do -if I try tto talk to him aboutit he get defensive and turns it around on me, so I've left it alone hoping its just a phase nad he'll get through it and start to act like he;s really glad to be back home! Rachael
