John-HOw long was your wife in an A and how long has it been since she has ended it. When did you finally start to trust her again?? I am having such a hard time with it (trust). IS it slow like they say it is getting to that point where you start to feel like the bottom is not goingto fall out from beneath you any minute? DId she stat to do something different that made you feel like she was emotionally present finally? ITs been 5 months since I found out about my H A, and I am having a real hard time rebuilding trust. ITs very slow to come back. HE tells me I cna trsut him but after 2 1/2 yrs of him lying to me I have a hard time beleiveing it. Before this he was faithful for 27 yrs. We married very young-I am 47 nad he is 48. I don;t want to throw away 30 yrs of marriage over this. Rachael M.
