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So, putting that aside, my insight for today is that we must provide love in the manner the receiver sees as valuable, not in the way that we might see it as valuable. Make sense?




How do we know when it is the typpe of love that they want? I mean how do we know if the S's responce is genuine or just one not to hurt our feelings? I know my W likes gifts but it is against DB practices to provide gifts in the sitch. Just curious.

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3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months)
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