Yes, number lady, she eats it and often has seconds! It's funny sometimes when the kids carry on about the meal, they will say "Do you like it, Mommy, is it good?" Then she will say "Yes, it is" as though it's killling her to say it! It's fun watching the kids drag it out of her. Tonites meal was 5 spice tofu stir fry on Udon noodles, nappa cabbage with beef and mock chicken with water chestnuts. I am a vegetarian so I have to watch both sides of the fence while cooking for those who are not, it makes it a little harder but it's what I chose to do (Vegetarianism was one of my GAL choices, my W told me she thought I would become a Buddhist next!). Yes, my W can be such a strange person sometimes, but I will continue on as is. I once told her that "I am a good person and I will continue to be a good and caring person. I refuse to let you or anyone else turn me into someone I do not want to be" She had just announced her A and stated how amazed she was at the fact that I was not yelling and screaming at her. So I will continue to be who I believe I am, she can take it or leave it. I have always refused to be vindictive or hurtful re the A and I think, on the whole, I have succeeded in doing that. Now, to work on the things that will make me an even better person!
I forgot to mention that since I have been cooking this way the OP has been sending home little homecooked treats with my W! Soups, ribs etc. Have I got her scared or what

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Divorced February 27, 2012.

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