No I do not really think it sounds like Un-DB. Because you know you can not change anyone but yourself. The traits that are unappealing are the things that the W/H need to change on their own. If not why worry about it, you just have to accept it if you love the person and move on. Everyone has traits that we do not really like but we look past them because there are so many more that we love. Just my 2 cents.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
