Yes, Sean669, the one thing you will get on this site is people who will encourage you to keep on working at your sitch. Everywhere else people tell you to bail out, "you've done enough", "how long are you going to put up with this"...you know the rest. They mean well but just can't get by your pain and want it to end for you. Leaving is often seen as the best alternative by others. Here we understand why the other has chosen to stay, it's mutual. It amazes me that to try and do the right thing and keep your M and family together is seen as so crazy elsewhere! I guess pain speaks loudly. So thanks for choosing to check in on me, your thoughts are appreciated (and everyone else's too). I'm learning again and again and again...to be the best person I can be for me, because if I don't stand with myself, how can I expect anyone else stand with me (my W included)? Thanks again.
