MY therapist recommended I read a book: "Codependent No More" by Melody Beattie...I am about a quarter of the way through and can see myself in a lot of the book. I can see a lot of us who are struggling with significant others who are off in their own little world. It is just basically more affirmation that we can't control our significant others destructive behaviors...a lot of stuff about letting go and worrying about your own behaviors and how our controlling behaviors may just add to the problem...I have a lot more to read but so far I think it has been a good read.
Might be worth a read...
"Friendship is like peeing your pants: everyone can see it, but only you can feel the true warmth."
