perfection 2

[sean669]

excellent read on the stich. You have to be able to say this is who I am and I am happy with that. If you are happy, she will see that. Be the fun person you were when you met. DOn't expect a sudden ROI. What I think you want (we all do) is the long term retun. you might have to do X-Y and Z, and still get nothing in return... but if it makes you feel good about yourself, thats what counts. I know I'v ebeen doing that... I could probally do 100 things to her 1... but I feel good about those things.. and have no expectation for retun. (ok a little, but I keep it inside right now). Its going from this to the postive. After all, if you do good, feel good... good things will happen.