Start by reading Divorce Remedy if you have not already. Obviously there has been changes in you that you need to focus on before you can worry about saving your marriage. What was it that your W fell in love with in the very begining? What has changed from then to now? What can you do to put yourself back into that same position? Just remember it is all about you. You can not control her or change her she will have to do that on her own. You can speed it up though by correcting yourself for you not her.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."