Hi ImLIN,
I am glad that you are doing fine. You are right about your H not talking about his issues to the psychiatrist. Maybe your doctor can help. I will probably also help your H's self-esteem when he is working. Anything is better than doing nothing. It is said that too much free time gets you thinking about your life and sitch too much and with work we have to concentrate on something else. That is of course true and can be applied to anybody, also to us.

I am not doing too badly but not too good either at the moment. My patience is running out and I get quite depressed from time to time. At the moment I don't see any progress in my sitch. However, there is no backsliding either, and that is good. I would just like to speed up H's journey, and I know that's not possible. At least I have my holiday to look forward to and that helps.
Take care and all the best for your sitch. HUGS