Muddle, I know what you mean (imagine that ), I often wonder whether I married my W so that I wouldn't have to communicate but could be a caretaker. The sad thing about these kind of thoughts is that it was all so long ago! After 17 years, it's hard for me to accurately guage anything from back then, so what's the point. I'm still trying to remember when times were good what made them good, that's been a while too! It feels like I've been living this dysfunctional mess forever! Anyway, I'm so glad things are going well for you right now. Take care.
), I often wonder whether I married my W so that I wouldn't have to communicate but could be a caretaker. The sad thing about these kind of thoughts is that it was all so long ago! After 17 years, it's hard for me to accurately guage anything from back then, so what's the point. I'm still trying to remember when times were good what made them good, that's been a while too! It feels like I've been living this dysfunctional mess forever!