Muddle, I thought I told you to stay away from my W It's so bizarre. Your W is very verbal with this kind of idiocy whereas mine tends to keep it to herself (I'm beginning to appreciate that trait!) but once in a while it comes pouring out. Same stuff: "I shouldn't have to tell you what I need, you should know" Did I ever tell you my all time favourite? We were going to buy a bed, it was expensive but a good deal for that model, but we weren't sure. We put down a deposit and then talked about it later. I asked "do you want the bed?" She said "it's too expensive", I said "you have a back problem, so if you would like that bed, we'll buy it, I'm OK with that" and she said "No, it's too expensive" so I said "if you change your mind just say so". Guess what, months later during an argument/ discussion about our R she says "I wanted that bed, you should have known that and ordered it anyway" I reminded her that I had asked her directly about the bed at the time and she said "you've known me long enough to know I really did want it despite what I said" Well, where do you go with that! We will overcome, Muddle (maybe, just not in this lifetime !!!! )