Sounds like things are improved Muddle. The fact that she is taking responsibility for her own anger is a pretty big plus! It gives you space to breathe and look at your own part in this little drama. It's good you were able to see how the parade incident could have been handled differently whether you did so or not. Just recognizing that there are choices is pretty liberating. I loved your answer about "hoping", it was perfect. There's nothing wrong with leaving yourself open to whatever may come about, it's honest but not an overpowering statement. I'm glad you and your son enjoyed the parade! chin up, you're doing the right things (in my mind, for what that's worth )
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