Well, in the end it comes down to them actually doing the work. My W resents what she does do, but also resents what I do because I look like "the good one" and I actually enjoy doing for my family. So, I think the only solution is to clearly define who does what and leave hers to her. End of story. The trouble is that she won't sit down and define anything, or talk about anything for that matter. I can't make her, and anytime I try and bring up talking she immediately comes up with a grievance to complain about to avoid setting a date/time to talk. I can accept that I'm not persistant enough - but at some point, she's to blame for avoiding doing what she should.
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
