Yes, I too, Muddle, can look at most interactions with my W and see how I could have done or said it differently. But, how much dif would it have made? You're only human and you respond as such. There is no perfection in this world and it is unreasonable for us to expect ourselves to be. It's tough living in the no-win world you are in right now. I guess you just accept that's where you're at and carry on... or dump the bitch!!! I honestly can't fathom how you are still handling this the way you are. Hats off to you, Muddle!
