Yes, I agree she projects. She's told me her therapist thinks so as well. I'm not sure whether me ignoring her and in a sense earning her anger is an effective way of forcing her to take responsibility for her anger or if it will allow her to continue to avoid it by blaming me for it. I agree about hitting rock bottom before she can rebuild in a healthy way, but right now she has people supporting her in a way that seems to prevent her from hitting bottom and I don't want to be one of them any more. I'm just not sure where I'm helping and where I'm hurting.
I do appreciate your input BTW!
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
