Quote: He said that things HAD improved, but he is not willing to give up his apartment yet (I guess he sees that as an escape hatch of sorts).
That is tough and I hate the phrase "I haven't made a decision" you mentioned your H said later in your post. That makes me feel like the Hs know they have us dangling and I feel so... I don't even know, pitied I guess...when my H says that. I just say that I don't want an answer to that right now (I figure that not knowing is beter than them knowing they DON'T wanna be in it, right?), I just want the dialogue, occassional R talk and knowledge that H is willing to work on our M. GEEZ! Men can be so clueless as to how their words translate to us women!!!
You post here as long as you like. We have a lot of people who still live together on here. It helps give insight and hope for us that are separated! Let the R talk go cold for a while and try to not be resentful (I get that way too) and keep doing what is working!
