I see lots of baby steps on your H's part. A hug and a thank you is very positive. Also, the fact that he is not staying at his apt. is a very positive sign. Hang in there! This doesn't sound like a man who is planning to leave you. Enjoy the holidays and then have your talk with him like you are planning. I wish you the best!
Shelly
Me: 34
H: 37
1 child
Married 10 yrs (together 13)
Bomb: Aug 25th "I'm not in love w/ you anymore"
H walked out: Aug 30th