I think you are doing awesome and I really see a lot of positives in your sitch. I know it's hard to keep it all together under so much stress. The chair is a very thoughtful gift! I think it's great that you stood up for yourself when your H asked you about the closet. I will pray for you that you will still be a family next year as well! I have also been thinking about how my life might be by next Christmas. I have to remember that no matter what the outcome of my M, God has a plan for my life.
Shelly
Me: 34
H: 37
1 child
Married 10 yrs (together 13)
Bomb: Aug 25th "I'm not in love w/ you anymore"
H walked out: Aug 30th