Hey hon, my prayers w/you. I too remember the 2nd month, thinking it was sheer hell not knowing where we stand, and H tellingme "just live your live, go on your business' I did have the "where are we now" after 6mths, if you are getting sick over it just do it, in the most calm way you can muster, 70% of our language is our body language. Hang in there gal, glad to hear he did buy you something and you didn't jump to conclusions. About the checking acct, if he is being picky about it then just post all transactions somewhere you both have access to, the ones where he buys stuff just for himself.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
