I gave my H the mars-venus book while he was away, he did get stuff out of it but didnt' say much, and that's because men usually dont' open up and talk about emotional stuff, so dont be puzzled if he hasnt' said anything.

Are you still trying to go on dates w/him? I understand how painful it is that your H doenst' show any affection, right now he is on "me" mode, and possible still in the blame stage and does not want to see your changes or doesnt' believe them. You keep up the good the work, and your actions will speack louder than anything you could say to him.

I gained 3lbs over the holidays,don't feel so bad hon, just keep drinking water and eat sensibly over the holidays, I know it's hard! but you can make it.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.