Thanks FLTC and Shelly - A couple weeks after I had my D (9 months old now), I was at a birthday party for a little friend of S3, and another dad there (who I had never met before) said, "You had a baby 3 WEEKS AGO?! You look great!" I remember wishing that my H would be so nice to me. Of course, weight is a superficial thing to criticize -- I know that H is just looking to rack up a bunch of complaints to justify his behavior. So, FLTC, I am glad to hear a man agree that that is a crock. Shelly, you are right, I need to make my changes about being happy for myself.
Hopefully, this week will be a better week for all of us.
