I agree with FLTC, your H had no consideration for your feelings by making you feel bad about your weight after giving birth. My H did the exact same thing and I feel a little resentful towards him for it. It took me about 2 yrs to get back to my regular weight but I wish my H had been less critical and more supportive. Try not to be so hard on yourself! Losing baby weight takes time and you've got a lot of stress in your life right now. The fact that you've lost 45lbs is absolutely awesome! You sound like an caring, hard-working, incredible woman and I'm sorry your H doesn't appreciate that! Keep your chin up. I know how it is to feel lonely and unloved by your own H. Everyday I am learning to love myself and to not let my H define me. I don't even try to do the 180's to get his attention anymore, I do them because it makes me feel good to do positive things for myself. I have turned around almost everything he said was wrong with me and I have yet to receive one compliment. Start thinking about what would make YOU happy and base your 180's on that.
Shelly
Me: 34
H: 37
1 child
Married 10 yrs (together 13)
Bomb: Aug 25th "I'm not in love w/ you anymore"
H walked out: Aug 30th
