Hoping For A Miracle - New Here

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It's hard to read these stories - it's the same thing over and over with so many people and I know exaclty how you all feel. My H's lack of feeling for me was very quickly replaced by his feelings for the OW, although I never knew that at the time. I was just desperate for him to work on our R. I never knew he had really checked out long before I even knew there was a problem.

I can't help feeling you need something to shake up your sitchs. I feel that you need to really make changes, big changes for you. I read so often that the WAS only come back when the LBS has moved on. Is there some way to give the appearance of this sooner? Will they only believe it when it's genuine? I don't know. Hell, I've not successfully DBed my own marriage so maybe I should shut up!