Well, lemon, I think the fact that he hasn't been staying at his apt and that you guys ML are really good signs. It sounds like you are handling things well. I understand what you are saying about rolling with things until the holidays are over. I am planning the same thing. It's so hard not knowing what is going to happen. I have a feeling a decision will get made in my sitch after the first of the year. My H has eluded to this several times. I pray everyday that God will soften my H's heart.
Shelly
Me: 34
H: 37
1 child
Married 10 yrs (together 13)
Bomb: Aug 25th "I'm not in love w/ you anymore"
H walked out: Aug 30th