I hope your birthday is wonderful! My H went out and bought an expensive new motorcycle right after he left. I figured it was another case of him looking for happiness in the wrong places. (He also bought a bunch of other new stuff.) I guess he needs new things for his new life that doesn't include me. It sounds like you are holding up well considering the circumstances. Living in limbo is not a fun way to live. Hang in there sister!
Shelly
Me: 34
H: 37
1 child
Married 10 yrs (together 13)
Bomb: Aug 25th "I'm not in love w/ you anymore"
H walked out: Aug 30th