hey hon, no, I don't have a tread, I'm still flying low, in a while I'll ditch the new name and go back to being cat03, I have a few threads on "piecing" under cat with great advice if you care to look at them.
About Thanksgiving, when I was separated we still did the usual, went to both our families' home. Just ask him about his schedule for Thanksgiving and let him take it from there, just be casual about it.
Quote: I am starting to realize that I am under so much less stress when my only interaction with him is 10-15 minutes a day on the phone.
I remember that, on the outside I was keeping it together, but boy I was going nuts elsewhere, I started having obsesions w/death, getting old, who's going to care about me, etc etc, it was stress, it was coming out some other ways, so please try to talk to a therapist when you can ok?
...but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.
piecing after separation
