Am still feeling calm generally, but anytime I let my mind wander at all I start feeling sick -- for all I know, nothing that I have done has made any difference and he still plans to D me.
Wow, we are all on that ride! I try not to think about it too much. Just try to focus on right now. That's great that your H has agreed to go on dates with you. I also have a November birthday. Let me just say Happy Birthday to you a little early. If I was there I would take your kids out shopping for you. It's sounds like you deserve a really special day. Have a wonderful weekend with your kiddos!
Shelly
Me: 34
H: 37
1 child
Married 10 yrs (together 13)
Bomb: Aug 25th "I'm not in love w/ you anymore"
H walked out: Aug 30th