Snooping always makes things worse. I know from experience when I find stuff, it just makes things worse and sends me into a tailspin. Plus now that you know, NOW WHAT? You can't really do anything with it. As more time passes, you want to be ready to take the worst, and time will allow you to do that. If you're like me, you'll just ruminate on the stuff you find and let your mind play tricks on you, just like the wedding ring. Is it lost? Did he throw it away? Did he pawn it? You'll drive yourself crazy, and you've got too much going on in your head to put that into the mix as well. Snooping is no good! Nothing positive will come from it.
