I have had a busy few days and not much time to check in here on how everyone else is doing -- just wanted to quickly post now, and will hopefully catch up some more tonight.

H came home from his trip Wednesday night. I had made dinner (a 180 -- I hardly ever cooked on weeknights before, which is one of the MANY things he complained about), straightened the kids and the house, and looked decent. After kids were asleep I surprised H by initiating ML -- this was taking a chance, as I have not done so since he's gotten his apartment - we have only ML when he started it. He seemed pleased, but yesterday I had a busy day at work and barely talked to him. He leaves again for a trip tomorrow, and won't be home till Tuesday. I have to go to LA on Monday afternoon, and won't be back till very late Tuesday night (actually, very early Wednesday morning), so I won't be there when he gets back. My parents will have the kids. On Wednesday, we have a date set up. I am hoping to be a bit dim these next 4-5 days, then try to have a good time on Wednesday. Am stressed about having to leave the kids with my parents as it's alot of work for them. I would be so hosed without them - they are so helpful to me. My mom knows about my sitch and so has been exceptionally supportive. She has probably told my dad and told him not to tell me he knows. Oh well.

I snooped in H's car (I know, bad DBing) this morning, and I saw he had his laundry basket from his apartment in the back seat, so he'll probably do his laundry at our house while I am at work today. I also saw that he has his cell phone charging in his car instead of inside the house, which makes me wonder if he has something to hide. It had one new message on it, but I did not look to see who it was from. H swears up and down that there is no OW, and I had believed him, but this makes me wonder . . . I know I shouldn't snoop, but I feel like I don't know this person anymore and so I am looking for any clue I can to figure out what's going on. I was reading on Shelly's thread a bit, and I wonder if my H is MLCing also - he does seem to have some of the signs. Will have to look at that board this weekend.