We are all going thru this together here. We will definitely be here to support you and encourage you. I will tell you this. Don't be too hard on yourself. You sound like an incredible woman who is working her @ss off to hold it all together with two small children. Make sure you do nice things for yourself and take care of YOU. Your H sounds a lot like mine in that my H also was not very understanding towards me after our D7 was born and also was unwilling to put any energy into improving our M. It's not fair that our spouses have chosen to take off when things got rough and yet thats the hand we've been dealt. It sounds like you're not getting a lot of support from your H and you've got a lot on your plate. Make sure you have a good support system and that you are not forgeting to take time for yourself. Maybe ask your H to watch the kids one night while you go out and do something fun with a friend. Keep your chin up and stay strong.
Shelly
Me: 34
H: 37
1 child
Married 10 yrs (together 13)
Bomb: Aug 25th "I'm not in love w/ you anymore"
H walked out: Aug 30th
