How many times does H have to tell me -----he just has been hurting for so long... he didn't guard his emotions and fell in love with the wrong woman....it just happened...he has been unhappy for as long as he can remember and couldn't I tell it was because of our relationship...he's sorry and didn't mean to hurt me...but feels he wants a divorce...needs to take the time living overseas to get right...its too bad we can't all be happy...blah..blah..blah Give me a break!!! It didn't just happen, he let it! He could stop hurting me and DO THE RIGHT THING by honoring our marriage. He could decide that the past is gone and stop convincing himself it was so awful!!!! Thanks for listening.. Can anyone relate?