Thanks everyone for the posts. I liked the comment from Whatisis about telling him I respect that he wants the conversations with her but that I am not really interested. He did stay at the house last night on the couch. He never made it to the guestroom. Today, we took the kids and went to a movie and hung out. We had little interaction but at least we didn't yell or argue. I did text him that I pray we make it through this but that I realized I had to let go. It is hard to explain but I have to find a way to let this go so that I can GAL and deal with all of this. I can't make him care or even respect the committment of marriage. I do have to find a way to not be consumed. Crazy, I may let him come home. I am doing pretty good today. A few more days will determine if I can start to deal with it. It sounds like you are moving in the right direction. Keep it up. I'll keep you posted on things here.
