H had EA, is in love, moving overseas for job

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Be patient others on here will reply. I am not sure what to tell you to do in your situation but I figure I would post just to show some support. You have more than a walkaway spouse...you got a runaway out of the country spouse. From the state of your message I don't really think it will be a good situation him staying at home...you are likely to drive him nuts and push him further away...you are going to want to relationship talk...and beg for him to come back...be with you...etc...not saying anything bad about you...it is totally understandable...but to the WAS it will just push him further away.

You have so little time to do much of anything...maybe see if you can convince him to stay in the country and not take the overseas assignment and then backoff. Even if he leaves don't get divorced if that is not what you want. Not to be harsh but maybe it is best if he does leave as it will force you to GAL and eventually he will return and maybe some love will be back?

I don't know...I am sure others will have better ideas...