Shades,

I am a moderator/mentor at 4060 and pretty much fill the same role at pathpartners.com. I try to get back here and keep up on a few threads - but miss a couple of weeks and it takes some reading to catch up (I'll try to get back over to your sitch today - I am interested in seeing how you have been doing).

It is also harder to find time for the boards once your life comes back together - my W now wants to spend more time with me . I was also assist coach for D12's soccer team (2 evenings a week + a chunk of Saturday), then D12 made the Jr. High soccer team, + her off campus Violin lessons - I started teaching Bible study every other week...........................GAL also takes time away from the boards.

So - I have been keeping busy, all good stuff. Most of my board time now is when it's slow at work - some weeks there is more time then other.

luvmywaw,
Post a link – I’ll try to find time to read up on your sitch. I never thought I was going to make it through this – my W’s MLC was too linear, that actually worried me more – I kept waiting for the shoe to drop………………….

My best advice is to keep reading – but also different MLC sites to get different ideas and see different sitchs. Like my post above: saying your spouse has MLC is like saying someone has cancer……………………..there’s allot more then one type of cancer and MLC’s are unique, there is no one size fits all.

This has been a turning point to a better M.
In 25 years will either of us will remember much about this time?
Because in 50 years neither of us will remember much of anything.